I can get the blues and feel that I am not loved or cared for by my husband. I know I get this way so when I am feeling good, that's the best time for selecting womens lingerie. I put it away until I need a boost. Beautiful lingerie can go a long way toward building confidence and making me feel really good about myself. I believe that what I wear have a large impact on how my husband view and treat me. Let's face it, when we start to let our look go, our mates can see it and we must get with it.