If you’re looking for natural or alternative menopause treatments, there are many products available including skin care, (using more moisturizing lotion since skin gets drier), and many herbal remedies for menopause. It is also important to get an annual check- up.
There is no need to suffer just because you are embarrassed about it, but this is something that can be treated.
The main treatment is to address the hormone deficiency, either through the Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) and the hormone in question is estrogen (though this is becoming less and less popular due to the health risks of HRT, or through other natural methods or taking supplements high in soy.